Walking with Grace

by Tonya Ladipo This evening I was on Fox 29’s 5:00pm newscast. They contacted me to talk about mothers in the workplace and what is (or is not appropriate) to discuss. As soon as I have access to the link I will post it here. A brief review: Be human and honest. If you have children then it makes sense …

Ch-ch-changes

by Tonya Ladipo How is it that we can struggle with making changes that we know are good for us? We all have big and little things that we could do differently and it would significantly improve our lives. So why is it that going to bed earlier, writing about our feelings, or seeing our friends more often is so …

What the “Tiger Mother” Got Right

by Tonya Ladipo I’ve been inundated with commentary about what the “Tiger Mother” has done wrong. She’s “mean”, “hard” and “unloving” are a smattering of comments that I’ve read and heard. But what about where she’s right? Before I go any further let me be clear that I have not read “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” by Amy Chua. …

Dance of Intimacy

by Tonya Ladipo Recently I’ve worked with some clients who are struggling to be emotionally intimate and also maintain a separateness from their loved one. I’ve seen this struggle with friendships, intimate partnerships, and even in the parent-child relationship. For some, having the As simple as it may seem, the first step is acknowledging the struggling.understanding of their struggle can …